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June 16, 2026

His Jealous Ex Kept Showing Up…Then The Newlywed Bride Was Found Dead | Sherri Rasmussen

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A newlywed's brutal murder, initially dismissed as a burglary, remained unsolved for decades until DNA evidence exposed a jealous ex-girlfriend and LAPD officer as the killer, revealing a systemic failure in the original investigation.
Sherri Rasmussen's 1986 murder was initially misclassified as a burglary, despite evidence suggesting a personal attack.
DNA evidence from a bite mark, analyzed decades later, revealed the killer was a woman, contradicting the original theory.
John's jealous ex-girlfriend, LAPD officer Stephanie Lazarus, was identified, arrested, and convicted based on DNA and circumstantial evidence, including her reported 'stolen' gun.

Summary

In 1986, newlywed Sherri Rasmussen was found brutally murdered in her Los Angeles condo. Initial police investigations, hampered by a focus on a 'burglary gone wrong' theory and an overwhelmed department, quickly went cold. Sherri's father, Nells, immediately suspected John's ex-girlfriend, an LAPD officer, who had previously harassed Sherri. However, his concerns were dismissed by detectives. Decades later, with advancements in DNA technology, a cold case review in 2004 found female DNA from a bite mark on Sherri's arm, contradicting the original theory. In 2007, detectives Jim Nuttle and Pete Barbara reopened the case, focusing on female suspects. They identified Stephanie Lazarus, John's ex-girlfriend and a respected LAPD officer, whose name was in the original file. Further investigation revealed Lazarus owned a .38 caliber handgun, a common LAPD off-duty weapon, which she reported stolen 13 days after the murder. In 2009, investigators covertly obtained Lazarus's DNA from a discarded cup, which matched the bite mark. During interrogation, Lazarus minimized her relationship with John and denied meeting Sherri, but was arrested. She was convicted of first-degree murder in 2012 and sentenced to 27 years to life. In 2023, Lazarus finally admitted to the murder, timed with a parole eligibility change, but her parole was denied in 2025.
This case highlights the critical impact of forensic advancements, particularly DNA technology, in solving cold cases and correcting initial investigative biases. It also underscores the importance of a victim's family's persistence in seeking justice, even when facing institutional resistance. The initial failure to investigate a credible lead due to the suspect's status as a police officer and the prevailing 'burglary' theory demonstrates how preconceived notions can derail justice for decades.

Takeaways

  • Newlywed Sherri Rasmussen was found murdered in her condo in 1986, with signs of a violent struggle but only her marriage license missing.
  • Initial LAPD investigation focused on a 'burglary gone wrong' theory, dismissing Sherri's father's suspicions about John's ex-girlfriend, an LAPD officer.
  • Advancements in DNA technology in the 2000s allowed for re-examination of evidence, revealing female DNA from a bite mark on Sherri's arm.
  • The DNA matched Stephanie Lazarus, John's ex-girlfriend, who was a respected LAPD officer and owned a .38 caliber handgun, the type used in the murder, which she reported stolen shortly after.
  • Lazarus was arrested and convicted of first-degree murder in 2012, finally admitting to the crime in 2023 during a parole hearing, which was subsequently denied.

Insights

1Initial Misdirection and Dismissal of Key Information

The LAPD initially focused on a 'burglary gone wrong' theory, influenced by other local break-ins and a stack of electronics found near the door. This led them to overlook critical details like the missing marriage license and dismiss Sherri's father's immediate suspicion of John's ex-girlfriend, an LAPD officer, as 'watching too many cop TV shows.'

Investigators found a stack of stereo and video equipment near the front door, suggesting a burglary []. Sherri's father, Nells, immediately brought up John's ex-girlfriend, a 'lady cop,' but was 'brushed off' by the investigator [].

2DNA Evidence Contradicts Original Theory

Decades after the murder, a cold case review utilizing new DNA technology found two DNA profiles from a bite mark on Sherri's arm. One belonged to Sherri, and the other, identified as XX, belonged to an unknown woman, completely dismantling the long-held theory that a male burglar or gang member was responsible.

In December 2004, a criminalist found two DNA profiles from a swab taken from the bite mark on Sherry's arm. The gender marker came back as XX, indicating the person who bit Sherry was a woman [].

3Identification and Arrest of Stephanie Lazarus

The new DNA evidence prompted a second investigation in 2007, leading detectives to re-examine the original case file. They found Stephanie Lazarus, John's ex-girlfriend and an LAPD officer, whose name was noted in connection to the case. Further investigation revealed her history of jealousy, a .38 caliber handgun (the murder weapon type) she owned and reported stolen shortly after the murder, and ultimately, her DNA matched the bite mark.

Stephanie Lazarus was listed as John's ex-girlfriend with a note 'PO' for police officer []. She owned a .38 caliber weapon, common for LAPD officers, and reported it stolen 13 days after Sherry's murder []. Covertly collected DNA from a discarded cup matched the bite mark on Sherry's arm [].

4Lazarus's Denial and Eventual Confession

During her interrogation, Stephanie Lazarus attempted to minimize her relationship with John and denied any significant interaction with Sherri. She maintained her innocence throughout her trial and for years in prison. However, in 2023, she finally admitted to killing Sherri during a parole hearing, a confession that coincided with new laws offering special parole consideration for crimes committed before age 26.

Stephanie minimized her relationship with John and claimed not to remember meeting Sherry []. She was convicted of first-degree murder in 2012 []. In November 2023, during a parole hearing, Stephanie admitted to killing Sherry for the first time [].

Lessons

  • Advocate for the re-examination of cold cases using modern forensic techniques, especially DNA analysis, as technology can provide breakthroughs decades later.
  • Challenge initial assumptions and biases in investigations, particularly when a suspect's professional status or a convenient theory might prevent a thorough review of all leads.
  • Trust and support the persistence of victims' families; their unique insights and unwavering pursuit of justice can be vital in solving long-unresolved crimes.

Quotes

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"I'm truly in love with John, and the past year has really torn me up. I wish it didn't end the way it did, and I don't think I'll ever fully understand his decision."

Stephanie Lazarus (from a letter)
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"I'm happy for the family. I'm happy for the family, but you know, I'm glad it wasn't robbers. It was somebody that somebody knew."

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