Reddit Is The Best Medicine | Reading Reddit Stories
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Takeaways
- ❖A man regained his sense of smell after a 'pop' in his head during a bowel movement, leading to a massive mucus discharge and an eventual ER visit where no aneurysm was found.
- ❖A pregnant woman's husband prioritized martial arts training over her urgent medical need for a growing hematoma, revealing a history of cheating and gaslighting.
- ❖A broke nursing student accidentally face-planted into a wall, leaving a snotty imprint, after a compassionate doctor waived her $160 form fee.
- ❖A friend demanded hospital bill payment after tripping over a small corgi, sparking debate on liability when the injured party was running and contact was unconfirmed.
- ❖A Type 1 diabetic bridesmaid was pressured by her sister and mother to remove essential medical devices for wedding photos, but family intervention (threatening wedding funding) led to an apology and compromise.
- ❖A patient, awake during calf surgery, overheard doctors making fun of his penis size, mistakenly believing he was sedated, exposing a severe lapse in medical professionalism.
Insights
1Severe Head Pain Requires Immediate Medical Attention
A Reddit user experienced an 'eight or nine' level pain in the back of their head after a 'pop' during a bowel movement, followed by a massive mucus discharge and regained sense of smell. Despite their history of cancer and a mother who died of an aneurysm, they initially delayed going to the ER. Medical professionals on Reddit, and the hosts, strongly advised immediate emergency care for such sudden, intense headaches due to the risk of conditions like aneurysms.
The EMT-B responder on Ask Docs stated, 'What's concerning me is the level of pain you experience during and after the event, plus your medical history. As wonderful and miraculous this event is, you need to go to an emergency room ASAP.' Another user shared stories of friends experiencing strokes and burst aneurysms after similar 'pops' and intense headaches.
2Partner Neglect During Medical Emergencies is a Major Red Flag
A pregnant woman developed a significant, painful hematoma but her husband chose to attend martial arts training instead of helping her get urgent medical care or watching their children. This demonstrated a severe lack of concern for her well-being, especially given her pregnancy and the urgency of the situation. The hosts identified this as a critical indicator of a deeply flawed relationship.
The OP stated, 'He said he'd get takeaway, but he needs to go to training for his mental health. So, he went.' Later, the OP revealed, 'Yes, he cheated. He did it loudly and proudly, too, and made her think she was crazy.' The hosts commented, 'It's like, man, it doesn't really matter if he's having an affair or not. He's so awful.'
3Prioritizing Aesthetics Over Essential Medical Needs is Unacceptable
A Type 1 diabetic bridesmaid was asked by her sister (the bride) and mother to remove her Dexcom blood sugar monitor and Omnipod insulin pump for wedding photos because they found the devices 'ugly.' This demand ignored the critical health function of the devices and the discomfort of alternative placements. The hosts and Reddit commenters universally condemned this request, emphasizing that health should never be compromised for aesthetic reasons.
The OP stated, 'My sister told me she wants me to not wear them during the wedding because the gowns are sleeveless and the devices will look ugly in the photos. I told her I wasn't okay removing them. They're essential medical equipment and I'm not going to put myself in a position to affect my health just for some photos.' A Reddit comment with 12,000 upvotes advised, 'Promptly declined the invitation to attend if your sister cares more about her aesthetic wants than your medical needs.'
4Medical Professionalism is Crucial for Patient Trust
A patient, under local anesthesia and fully awake during calf surgery, overheard two doctors making disparaging comments about his penis size, mistakenly believing he was sedated. This severe breach of professionalism highlights how easily patient trust can be eroded and contributes to patient anxiety about seeking medical care, especially for sensitive issues.
The OP recounted, 'Doc one walks to the table. Wow. Big and such a small dick. Doc two laughs. Uh OP goes what? Nurse in a panic. Oh no, you have the wrong patient file. This one isn't the fully sedated one. He is awake.' The hosts noted, 'It's physicians like that that make people afraid to go to the doctor because they're self-conscious about something on their bodies.'
Lessons
- If you experience sudden, severe, or unusual pain, especially in the head, seek emergency medical attention immediately rather than waiting or self-diagnosing.
- Evaluate your partner's response to your medical emergencies; a lack of support or prioritization of their own minor needs over your urgent health is a significant relationship red flag.
- Never compromise your essential medical care or devices for aesthetic reasons, regardless of external pressure from family or social events. Your health is paramount.
- Be mindful of the potential legal implications of admitting fault or offering payment for accidental injuries, as this could open a 'Pandora's box' of future claims.
- Advocate for yourself and others in medical settings; if you witness or experience unprofessional behavior from healthcare providers, consider reporting it to ensure patient dignity and trust are maintained.
Notable Moments
The hosts' disbelief and concern over the first Reddit story's protagonist delaying an ER visit despite severe head pain and a family history of aneurysms.
This moment underscores the critical message about not underestimating severe symptoms and the importance of immediate medical consultation, especially when dealing with potentially life-threatening conditions.
The collective outrage from the hosts and Reddit commenters regarding the husband who chose martial arts over his pregnant wife's medical emergency.
This highlights societal expectations for partner support in health crises and serves as a stark warning about toxic relationship dynamics and the consequences of extreme selfishness.
The intervention of the diabetic bridesmaid's brother and grandfather, who threatened to pull wedding funding, forcing the bride and mother to apologize.
This demonstrates the power of a strong support system and the effectiveness of setting firm boundaries, even within family, when personal health and dignity are at stake.
The patient's shocking experience of overhearing doctors make fun of his anatomy while he was awake during surgery.
This moment exposes a severe lapse in medical professionalism, emphasizing the vulnerability of patients and the potential for such incidents to erode trust in healthcare providers.
Quotes
"I get cluster headaches and migraines from time to time, but this was not a headache. This was just an intense pain in the back of my head. I am a cancer survivor... This was easily an eight or a nine on my pain scale."
"As wonderful and miraculous this event is, you need to go to an emergency room ASAP. At triage, report your history of cancer, the pop, the intense pain, and the ability to smell again. You need imaging and a coagulation panel immediately."
"Most martial arts at their core are about becoming a better, more rounded up person, not dancing around on a mat. That includes protecting those in need, putting them above yourself. Your husband is a failure."
"My sister told me she wants me to not wear them during the wedding because the gowns are sleeveless and the devices will look ugly in the photos. I told her I wasn't okay removing them. They're essential medical equipment and I'm not going to put myself in a position to affect my health just for some photos."
"Oh no, you have the wrong patient file. This one isn't the fully sedated one. He is awake."
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