The Joe Budden Podcast Episode 896 | Young Men That Carry Arms
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Summary
Takeaways
- ❖Common's classic albums (Resurrection, Be, Like Water for Chocolate) are argued to solidify his position above Jadakiss in MC rankings.
- ❖The hosts criticize Nike's MLK Day sneaker for its turquoise color, inspired by the Lorraine Motel where Dr. King was assassinated, calling it 'disgusting' and 'tone-deaf.'
- ❖Joe Budden openly states he is 'weary' of new friendships and only engages with people who have 'something going on' and a clear 'trajectory.'
- ❖The panel debates the ethics of a wedding venue refusing a refund after the groom's death, with some prioritizing business contracts and others emphasizing human decency.
- ❖Clarissa Shields's attempt to defend her image by calling into a YouTube show disguised as a friend is deemed 'embarrassing' and a misstep for a high-profile athlete.
- ❖The discussion around 'Mr. Tenderism' highlights the vulnerability of creators without intellectual property protection when partnering with business-minded individuals.
- ❖The hosts debate the true meaning of the Village People's 'YMCA,' with some suggesting it's a gay anthem and others a simple commercial for the association.
- ❖The proposed requirement for US citizens to prove citizenship is viewed as a discriminatory measure targeting Black and Brown communities, echoing historical injustices.
Insights
1Jadakiss vs. Common: A Battle of Discography and Cultural Impact
The hosts engage in a fervent debate about who ranks higher between Jadakiss and Common. Mark argues that Common's discography, featuring 'indisputable classic albums' like 'Resurrection' and 'Be,' along with his significant cultural impact (e.g., 'I Used to Love H.E.R.' as a hip-hop metaphor), places him above Jadakiss. Joe and others counter that Jadakiss's 'banger list' and consistent elite features make him superior, despite lacking multiple 'classic' solo albums. The debate highlights differing criteria for MC greatness: album quality and cultural significance versus raw lyrical prowess and consistent feature dominance.
Mark cites 'Resurrection,' 'Be,' and 'Like Water for Chocolate' as Common's classic albums and 'I Used to Love H.E.R.' as a culturally impactful track. Joe emphasizes Jadakiss's 'banger list' and versatility in features. The Ice Cube battle for Common is also brought up as a significant moment.
2Joe Budden's Selective Approach to New Friendships
Joe Budden articulates a controversial philosophy regarding new friendships, stating he is 'weary' of new people and only forms relationships with individuals who are 'going somewhere' or 'have something going on.' He differentiates this from existing, long-term friendships, which are 'grandfathered in.' He argues that engaging with people who are 'plateaued' or 'going nowhere' can lead to 'disaster and trouble' and a lack of relatability in conversations, especially as his own life is heavily work-focused.
Joe states, 'I just got views on new friendships. I just got views on new friendships.' He elaborates, 'It's hard to build relationships with people ain't going nowhere when you going somewhere.' He questions, 'Where did they come from? A new box. And why? And why at a… what do you like to do? Like where you come? You going to call me when you get out of Sears?'
3The Tone-Deafness of Nike's MLK Day Sneaker
Nike released a new LeBron sneaker called 'Honor the King' for MLK Day, which caused widespread outrage. The sneaker's turquoise color was explicitly marketed as being inspired by the Lorraine Motel, the site of Martin Luther King Jr.'s assassination. The hosts, particularly Mark, condemn this as 'disgusting' and 'inconsiderate,' arguing that of all the moments to commemorate Dr. King, Nike chose the moment of his death, where 'his assassins won,' rather than his achievements like the 'I Have a Dream' speech or bus boycotts.
The sneaker's press release stated it 'draws inspiration from the historic Lorraine Motel, the site of the important civil rights activist assassination.' Mark states, 'Don't pick the moment where his assassins won. It's disgusting.'
4The Ethical Dilemma of Wedding Venue Refunds for Deceased Grooms
A Florida woman was denied a refund on her $7,600 wedding venue deposit after her groom passed away from a heart attack five months before the wedding. The event space suggested she use the venue for a memorial. The hosts debate the business's right to uphold its contract versus the moral obligation for human decency. Some argue the business has allocated resources and lost potential bookings, while others contend that profiting from a tragedy is 'bad business' and that the venue should at least refund costs not yet incurred, especially given the five-month lead time.
The woman paid a $7,600 deposit, and her groom passed away five months before the May wedding date. The venue offered no refund. Ice argues, 'It's unfortunate that homeboy passed away... but we could have had mad other people want to book that date.' Mark counters, 'I think human decency has to play in here a little bit.'
5The Exploitation of Intellectual Property: The 'Mr. Tenderism' Case
The viral sensation 'Mr. Tenderism,' an elderly Black gentleman known for showcasing ribs that 'fall off the bone,' sparked a debate about intellectual property and exploitation. It was revealed that the 'smokehouse' business, which gained immense popularity through his videos, was originally a struggling coffee shop. The older gentleman, as a customer, suggested the idea of selling ribs. The white owner later trademarked 'Tenderism' and, in a video, claimed the gentleman 'had absolutely zero' when they met. This raises concerns about fair compensation and ownership for the person whose idea and persona drove the business's success, especially when the original creator may not be knowledgeable about IP law.
Mr. Tenderism's videos went viral, leading to lines around the block. The business owner, a white man, trademarked 'Tenderism' and stated, 'including this guy who when I met him had absolutely zero.' The coffee shop transformed into a smokehouse based on the older gentleman's idea.
6Clarissa Shields's Embarrassing Call-In to a YouTube Show
Champion boxer Clarissa Shields called into a YouTube show that was discussing her, but she did so while pretending to be a 'friend' defending her. The hosts find this 'hilarious' and 'embarrassing,' noting that she used her own recognizable voice and eventually slipped into speaking in the first person. They argue that a celebrity of her stature should not engage with such shows, especially not in a deceptive manner, as it undermines her image and gives 'clout' to the critics.
The audio clip reveals a woman, clearly identifiable as Clarissa Shields, defending herself in the third person, then slipping into first-person statements like 'you're saying that my tickets aren't selling for the fight.' Joe states, 'She sounds exactly like Clarissa Shields, which is a large part of why this is hilarious.'
Opportunities
IP Protection Education for Creators
Develop and offer accessible educational resources or workshops for 'creators' (broadly defined, including culinary, fashion, or social media personalities) on intellectual property rights, trademarking, and contract negotiation. This would address the vulnerability highlighted by the 'Mr. Tenderism' case, where a lack of knowledge can lead to exploitation.
Ethical Event Insurance & Refund Policies
For event spaces, implement a 'human decency' clause or a specific insurance offering for unforeseen tragic circumstances like the death of a groom/bride. While standard contracts protect the business, a policy that allows for partial refunds (deducting only incurred costs) or event rescheduling in such cases could significantly boost public image and goodwill, outweighing the financial loss.
Lessons
- Before entering business partnerships, especially when contributing a core idea or persona, ensure intellectual property is legally protected and compensation terms are clearly defined and fair for long-term success.
- When facing public criticism, celebrities and public figures should carefully consider the impact of their response, avoiding tactics that could be perceived as deceptive or that amplify negative narratives.
- Businesses should evaluate their policies, particularly those involving sensitive life events, to balance contractual obligations with human decency, as public perception can significantly impact brand reputation.
Quotes
"I don't know why people think cuz I'm frying them up about something that I won't turn around and do it."
"I think they're both different genres. And I think that's fair. And I think that's why that's why I would have never thought to even to do this. It's interesting head-to-head."
"I'm not saying he's winning against Jakus on features. I'm saying I'm talking about this comm's resume. Take Jissus off the table for a second. I'm saying he's he's battle tested elite albums been on classic songs great features has one has one of maybe the greatest hip-hop love song of all time to light."
"It's hard to build relationships with people ain't going nowhere when you going somewhere. And I don't mean money or nothing like that. I just mean life-wise."
"Don't pick the moment where his assassins won. It's disgusting."
"If you don't know what IP is and you're an older gentleman, you don't even know it need to be protected."
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