LOVE, SIMON (2018) Movie Reaction! | First Time Watch | Nick Robinson, Jennifer Garner, Josh Duhamel
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Takeaways
- ❖The hosts were consistently misdirected regarding the identity of 'Blue,' praising the film's clever narrative structure.
- ❖The movie realistically depicted Simon's friends' initial anger and hurt due to his actions under blackmail, rather than immediate, unconditional support.
- ❖Simon's father's initial awkwardness and eventual heartfelt acceptance provided a grounded, relatable portrayal of parental reactions to a child coming out.
- ❖The film's tone felt more 'cinematic' and 'coming-of-age' compared to other similar films, offering more emotional weight.
- ❖Martin, the blackmailer, received no true redemption, with his apology feeling insincere, which the hosts appreciated for its realism.
Insights
1Masterful Misdirection of 'Blue's' Identity
The film cleverly plants numerous red herrings and subtle clues, making the audience constantly guess who Simon's anonymous email correspondent, 'Blue,' could be. The hosts were repeatedly thrown off, only for the final reveal to make perfect sense in retrospect, utilizing previously dismissed characters and details like the 'black and Jewish' joke.
The hosts discuss how they were 'totally thrown off all over the place' and 'picking apart every person,' noting how 'the Oreos gave it away. Black and Jewish bluish.' They highlight how Bram was initially a suspect, then dismissed after being seen with a girl, only to be revealed as Blue later, a 'clever way of burying that lead.'
2Nuanced Portrayal of Friendship Reactions
Unlike simplistic narratives, 'Love, Simon' shows Simon's friends reacting with anger and hurt after his forced outing and the revelation of his manipulative actions (due to blackmail). Their initial lack of immediate support for Simon, despite his difficult circumstances, was praised for its realism and for giving Simon consequences for his own missteps.
The hosts appreciate that 'his actions still had consequences' and that his friends were 'angry and not necessarily supportive right off the bat.' They note that Simon 'still had to be on the hook for largely mistreating his friends during that brief time period.'
3Realistic Parental Coming-Out Experience
The film avoids a 'perfect' coming-out scenario, particularly with Simon's father. His initial awkwardness, jokes, and struggle to process the news, followed by a deeply emotional and supportive conversation, felt authentic and relatable to real-world experiences.
The hosts lauded 'his dad struggling with it and that like sort of initial awkwardness of like how do we get through this felt very very real where it wasn't a perfect coming out.' They mention the dad's guilt over past jokes and his need to 'come to terms with his own prejudices or his own thoughts.'
4Martin's Unredeemed Antagonism
The character of Martin, the blackmailer, remains largely unredeemed throughout the film. His apology is portrayed as insincere, driven by guilt rather than genuine remorse, and his actions continue to have negative repercussions for him, which the hosts found refreshing and realistic.
The hosts state, 'Martin sucks. Martin sucked.' They appreciate that the film 'did not give Martin an out' and that 'his apology was not great,' leaving him 'with egg on his face as a character.'
Lessons
- Recognize that coming-out narratives can be complex, involving not just personal struggle but also the varied reactions of friends and family.
- Appreciate storytelling that employs clever misdirection and nuanced character development, making the audience an active participant in solving a mystery.
- Understand that even in difficult situations, individuals' actions have consequences, and genuine apologies or redemption may not always be immediate or perfectly delivered.
Notable Moments
The revelation of Simon's emails being leaked and posted publicly, forcing his coming out.
This moment serves as the critical turning point, stripping Simon of his agency and forcing him to confront his identity publicly, leading to significant character growth and conflict.
Simon's mother's speech to him after his coming out, reassuring him that he is 'still you.'
This emotional scene provides a powerful message of unconditional love and acceptance, emphasizing that a person's identity doesn't change their core self, offering comfort and validation.
The final reveal of 'Blue's' identity on the Ferris wheel, after multiple misdirections.
This climactic moment resolves the central mystery, delivering a satisfying payoff to the audience's prolonged guessing game and solidifying the film's central love story.
Quotes
"The writing on this, I really didn't expect for it to be as complex of a plot as it was. I thought it was going to be a pretty straightforward thing, but I like that it was like that 'cause you're trying to solve a mystery at the same time this is going on."
"They did a better job of that than a lot of actual mystery films, I think."
"I think that this handled everybody's reactions in a really real way. I've lauded how his friends are angry and not necessarily supportive right off the bat. I also thought his like dad struggling with it and that like sort of initial awkwardness of like how do we get through this felt very very real where it wasn't a perfect coming out."
"He still had to be on the hook for largely mistreating his friends during that brief time period."
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