Jailed Joseph Duggar Emails Love Notes After Child Sex Crimes Arrest
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Takeaways
- ❖Joseph Duggar was held in solitary confinement due to his high-profile status and the nature of his child sex crimes charges, which makes him a target in prison.
- ❖Family members, including sister-in-law Anna and brother-in-law Austin, explicitly warned Joseph not to discuss legal matters in recorded communications, indicating prior experience with such situations.
- ❖Jim Bob Duggar's email to Joseph acknowledges 'terrible decisions' and 'major consequences,' suggesting a belief in Joseph's guilt rather than an assumption of innocence.
- ❖Kendra Duggar, facing her own child endangerment charges in Arkansas, expressed emotional distress and difficulty balancing her own struggles with supporting Joseph.
- ❖The Duggar family has a coordinated support system, with different members handling aspects like childcare, legal representation for Kendra, and Joseph's business affairs.
- ❖Kendra's spousal privilege means she is unlikely to be compelled to testify against Joseph regarding their communications, but could be a character witness during a penalty phase.
Insights
1Solitary Confinement for Protection
Joseph Duggar was placed in solitary confinement (lockup 23-24 hours a day) at the Washington County detention facility. This was likely for his personal safety due to his high-profile status and the nature of his charges (lewd and lascivious behavior with a minor), which often makes inmates targets for violence from other prisoners.
Joseph's email: 'I'm in lockup 23 24 hours...' (). Dave Aronberg's explanation: 'They may do it for his own personal safety because he is a high-profile figure. He could be a target behind bars. Plus, he's being charged with lewd and lascivious behavior with a minor. That puts you down on the fishing... totem pole.' ()
2Family Acknowledges Guilt and Consequences
Communications from Joseph's father, Jim Bob Duggar, explicitly state that Joseph 'made some terrible decisions' and will 'probably going to face some major consequences for several years to come.' This indicates that the family, at least Jim Bob, believes Joseph is guilty of the charges and is preparing for a long prison sentence, rather than maintaining his innocence.
Jim Bob's email to Joseph: 'You've made some terrible decisions, but God has already forgiven you if you have asked him... you're probably going to face some major consequences for several years to come.' ()
3Family's Coordinated Support System and Legal Awareness
The Duggar family has an organized system to support Kendra and manage Joseph's affairs. Kendra mentions different family members handling 'departments' like childcare, legal, and business. Additionally, both Anna Duggar and Austin Forsythe explicitly warned Joseph not to discuss legal matters in recorded communications, demonstrating their awareness of how these messages could be used by prosecutors.
Anna's email: 'Just remember, don't talk about anything legal unless you are with an attorney. Everything said in these messages, phone calls, and video chats are recorded and turned over to prosecutors.' (). Kendra's phone call: 'The whole family I think they just genuinely are like we love you guys and are here for you. But they told me they said we don't want to make any decisions for you. They just said we're here to support you cuz and I've been struggling because I was like I just need to know you know what's going on in some regard.' ()
4Kendra's Dual Struggle and Spousal Privilege
Kendra Duggar is grappling with her own child endangerment charges in Arkansas, which prevents her from seeing her children for a month. Despite this, her communications with Joseph are filled with love and support. Legally, her spousal privilege would likely prevent her from being compelled to testify against Joseph, but she could serve as a character witness during a sentencing phase.
Anna's email: 'She loves you deeply. She was strong on the phone call except for when she talked about it being a month before she can see the kids.' (). Dave Aronberg: 'There is a spousal privilege and so she would very unlikely be a witness against him... I think the only way that she would play a part in his trial is in the penalty phase after he's found guilty or pleads guilty.' ()
Notable Moments
Joseph Duggar's initial email to Kendra from jail, expressing love and loneliness, and describing the difficulty of using the slow email system.
This provides a personal glimpse into Joseph's immediate emotional state and the practical challenges of incarceration, setting the tone for his subsequent communications.
Kendra sending Joseph the lyrics to a Megan Wood song titled 'The Truth Is,' which discusses overcoming lies and knowing one's identity in God.
The lyrics raise questions about Joseph's perception of the charges, specifically the line 'I'm tired of hearing all the lies,' potentially indicating a lack of remorse or a belief he is being falsely accused, which could be used against him by prosecutors.
Jim Bob Duggar's email to Joseph, which is a mix of spiritual encouragement, acknowledgment of Joseph's 'terrible decisions,' and strong defense of Kendra's innocence regarding her own charges.
This message is highly revealing, showing Jim Bob's acceptance of Joseph's guilt while simultaneously expressing unwavering support for Kendra and criticizing her arrest, highlighting the family's selective defense and internal processing of the legal issues.
Quotes
"Just remember, don't talk about anything legal unless you are with an attorney. Everything said in these messages, phone calls, and video chats are recorded and turned over to prosecutors."
"When you abuse a child, you are the allegedly you are seen as the lowest form of life behind bars. And so you could be attacked for it."
"You've made some terrible decisions, but God has already forgiven you if you have asked him. Kendra is doing well overall. She is trusting in the Lord. She loves you very much. Your kids are going to be okay. Our whole family has pulled together to help."
"How many times can you hear the same lie before you start to believe it? The enemy keeps whispering to me. Swear. I swear these days it's all that I'm hearing."
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