KILLER DAD CHRIS WATTS: "GENDER REVEAL PARTY MADE ME A KILLER”
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Summary
Takeaways
- ❖Chris Watts murdered his pregnant wife, Shannan, and their two daughters, Bella and Celeste, disposing of their bodies in oil field containers and a shallow grave.
- ❖Shannan Watts struggled with lupus, making conception difficult, and was overjoyed about her third pregnancy, a boy named Nico.
- ❖Watts's affair and desire for a new life with his mistress, who wanted to bear his 'first son,' fueled his detachment and murderous intent.
- ❖Shannan's texts revealed Watts's sudden rejection of the baby and refusal of intimacy shortly before the murders.
- ❖The children, Bella and Celeste, were smothered, and their bodies were forced through small openings into oil tanks, causing post-mortem abrasions.
- ❖Shannan was manually strangled, and her body was buried in a shallow grave where decomposition led to 'coffin birth' of baby Nico.
- ❖A defense attorney controversially suggested the 'gender reveal party' motive could be argued as voluntary manslaughter, a claim vehemently rejected by Nancy Grace and expert guests.
- ❖Watts's own letters confirmed he planned the murders for two weeks, knowing the last time he kissed his daughters goodnight would be their last.
Insights
1Gender Reveal Party as Alleged Catalyst
Chris Watts reportedly claimed that the gender reveal party for his unborn son, Nico, was a significant factor that 'pushed him over the edge' to commit the murders. This claim is presented as a potential, albeit outrageous, motive for his actions.
Nancy Grace introduces the topic at the beginning, stating, 'Does a gender reveal party push killer dad Chris Watts to murder his pregnant wife Shannan and his two little girls Bella and Celeste?' and later, 'Tonight we are learning more about what pushed killer dad Chris Watts over the edge. A gender reveal party.'
2Shannan's Heartbreaking Texts and Party Preparations
Shannan Watts's text messages to a friend reveal her distress over Chris's sudden change of heart regarding their unborn baby and the cancellation of the gender reveal party. She had already made extensive preparations, spending over $860 on supplies, food, and decorations.
Shannan's texts read: 'I haven't slept most of the week. My eyes burn from crying so much. I cancelled the gender reveal.' and 'Chris told me last night he's scared to death about this third baby and he's happy with just Bella and Celeste and doesn't want another baby.' Dave Mack details: 'on August 7th... she spends $860 on party supplies, the cake, cookies, all of this. That's a lot of money for a gender reveal party. But Nancy, that's August 7th. The very next day, she cancels the party.'
3Watts's Premeditation and Psychological Detachment
Contrary to any 'heat of passion' defense, Chris Watts's own letters confirm he meticulously planned the murders for two weeks prior. His actions were a result of psychological detachment, fueled by a desire for a new life with his mistress, who expressed a wish to have his 'first son.'
Cherylyn Kadel, author who interviewed Watts, states: 'I have letters where he tells me what he did. And he says when he put the girls to bed that night, he knew that was the last time he would be kissing his babies good night because he was going to kill them. He had been planning for two weeks how to do this.' Dr. Gerilyn Utter explains: 'he had been over that six-week period fantasizing about this new life with this new woman... he started to look at his family more or less as an obstacle.' Kadel adds: 'She told him, "I want to have your first son." And I think that had a lot to do with in his head why he all of a sudden didn't want the son he had coming.'
4Gruesome Details of the Murders and Disposal
The two young girls, Bella and Celeste, were smothered. Bella, the older sister, showed signs of a greater struggle, biting her tongue and cheeks, possibly after witnessing Celeste's murder. Their bodies were then shoved through small openings into cylindrical oil containers, causing abrasions. Shannan was manually strangled and buried in a shallow grave, where the decomposition process led to a 'coffin birth' of their unborn son, Nico.
Dr. Kendall Crowns, Chief Medical Examiner, details: 'each little girl... appear to have been smothered. Bella... bites her tongue, she bites the sides of her cheek. I think it's because she saw her sister be smothered by her father first, and she knew what was coming, so she struggled more.' He continues: 'he then shoved them into the oil tanker and each child has abrasions on their body from actually being shoved through this small opening.' Regarding Shannan: 'she was strangled. He... manually strangled her with her hands until she died, wrapped her in a sheet and then buried her in a shallow grave.' He explains 'coffin birth' as 'the pressures from the decomposition gases causing the fetus to be expelled out of the uterus.'
Bottom Line
The federal government has the power to intervene in state-level murder cases and seek the death penalty, even in states where it's abolished, but political factors often prevent this intervention.
This highlights a significant disparity in justice, where the severity of punishment for heinous crimes can be influenced by political considerations rather than solely legal ones, potentially leaving victims' families without the justice they seek.
Advocacy groups could push for federal guidelines or independent review boards to assess federal intervention in capital cases, ensuring consistent application of justice regardless of state-level politics or election cycles.
Key Concepts
Psychological Detachment/Compartmentalization
Described as a process where an individual separates their emotional connection from one aspect of their life (e.g., family) to focus on another (e.g., a new relationship). Chris Watts exhibited this by fantasizing about a new life with his mistress while viewing his family as an obstacle, leading to a complete emotional and psychological disengagement that enabled his violent acts.
Notable Moments
Chris Watts's televised plea for his family's return, knowing he had already murdered them.
This moment showcases Watts's extreme deception and lack of remorse, presenting a chilling facade of a grieving husband and father while fully aware of his heinous acts. It underscores the psychopathic traits discussed by Dr. Utter.
The recording of Bella and Celeste singing 'My Daddy is a Hero' interspersed with details of their murder.
This juxtaposition creates a profoundly disturbing and tragic emotional impact, emphasizing the innocence of the victims and the ultimate betrayal by their father, making his actions even more incomprehensible and cruel.
Quotes
"I haven't slept most of the week. My eyes burn from crying so much. I cancelled the gender reveal. Nikki's going to tell me today the gender of the baby. I need happy news right now."
"He had been over that six-week period fantasizing about this new life with this new woman. And what happens a lot of times or in this particular case is he started to look at his family more or less as an obstacle."
"He had been planning for two weeks how to do this. He told me that he took them to the a birthday party the day before and he laid at the pool while the girls were playing in this this little pool. He laid there daydreaming in his head what he was going to do to his wife and children."
"If you have a valid reason where you just lose it, that is the quintessential defense uh of manslaughter and that should should have been the deal."
"You're equating your wife planning a gender reveal party and going to Costco and buying cheese trays and fruit snacks. That's that is the legitimate grounded reason that he quote lost it because his wife went to Costco. Seriously, are you really saying that?"
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