The Slow Clap | Ep 315 | Bad Friends

Andrew's 'slow clap' and subsequent wrist grab of Bobby at the Comedy Store, following Bobby's self-described 'terrible set,' created a significant misunderstanding. Andrew intended it as a joke, but Bobby perceived it as condescending and a physical boundary violation, leading to a confrontation about their 'business partner' vs. 'friend' relationship.

Bobby describes his set as 'meandering through poop' and Andrew's slow clap as 'condescending.' Andrew admits to grabbing Bobby's wrist, stating, 'I'll tell you what's not going to happen here, bud. Is us being in an environment where you're just going to not acknowledge my presence.'

Bobby Lee quit smoking cold turkey after a 'tar-like lugie' dried in his sink, which, combined with the recent death of his dog, Remy, created a powerful realization about his mortality and health. This decision, however, caused him significant anxiety and withdrawal symptoms.

Bobby states, 'I was smoking a cigarette and I had a lugie... it looked like tar. After it dried... because Remy had died... I made the connection between the tar lugie... and the death of my dog made me go, I'm done.'

The hosts discuss Rosanna Arquette's public criticism of Quentin Tarantino's use of the N-word in 'Pulp Fiction,' contrasting it with its use in 'Django Unchained.' They debate whether the language fits the character's context or feels gratuitous, acknowledging the complexity of artistic intent versus audience perception.

Andrew quotes Tarantino's response: 'I hope the publicity you're getting from 132 different media outlets... was worth disrespecting me and a film I remember quite clearly you were thrilled to be a part of.' They contrast Leo DiCaprio's use in 'Django' (slave owner) with a 'guy that lives in Sherman Oaks' in 'Pulp Fiction.'

Inspired by the prevalence of filters and AI in online dating, the hosts brainstorm a dating app where all profile photos must be taken 'first thing in the morning' without makeup or filters. The goal is to promote authenticity and prevent deception, with users able to update their single profile photo daily.

Andrew suggests, 'I think filters should be illegal on dating apps.' Bobby proposes, 'There should be a dating app where everybody looks like this. First thing in the morning.' They discuss features like daily photo updates and human verification.

Bobby Lee describes his unique 'mentorship' tactics for newer comedians like Ramsey Badawi, including the 'one-minute rule' (delaying their stage entry) and forcing them to incorporate absurd phrases like 'yaba daba doo' into their sets. These challenges are designed to push comics out of their comfort zones and develop resilience.

Bobby explains, 'I do a one minute rule with Ramsey Badawi... He doesn't get to get on stage for a minute after his name is announced.' He also mentions the 'yaba daba doo' challenge: 'You have to say yaba daba doo five times in your set and you can't tell the audience why.'

Discussing the 'Soft White Underbelly' interviews, the hosts observe that addiction affects people from all backgrounds, regardless of beauty or wealth. Andrew emphasizes that while addiction might have a 'nature' component, 'nurture'—specifically parental support and a stable home—is crucial for navigating and overcoming it.

Andrew states, 'Addiction knows no bounds. It doesn't matter where you're from, what color you are, how much money you came from.' He adds, 'I think addiction is nature... but if you have great parents... you can navigate it.'