He Pretended To Be A LORD, Stole Millions & Now He’s Missing After Escaping Prison?!

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A charming con man, 'Robert Underwood,' used elaborate lies, love bombing, and emotional abuse to defraud multiple victims, including his fiancée, of thousands of pounds before escaping prison and continuing his scams while on the run.
A con man known as 'Robert Underwood' used a fake aristocratic identity and lavish gestures to defraud his fiancée, Megan, and multiple other victims of significant sums.
His tactics included love bombing, emotional isolation, and using fake identities to open credit cards and loans in victims' names, leaving Megan £30,000 in debt.
After being caught and sentenced, he escaped from an open prison and remains at large, continuing to scam people under new aliases, highlighting the ongoing threat he poses.

Summary

This episode details the shocking story of a con man, known by many aliases including 'Robert Underwood' and 'Birdie,' who meticulously defrauded numerous individuals. His primary method involved portraying himself as a wealthy 'Lord' or 'Earl,' an inventor's heir, and a successful watchmaker. He love-bombed his fiancée, Megan Clark, with lavish gifts, dates, and a Cartier engagement ring, convincing her to quit her job and isolate herself. Megan later discovered he had taken out £30,000 in debt in her name and that her engagement ring was fake. Despite reporting the fraud, police initially dismissed it as a 'domestic issue.' Megan's public Facebook post revealed a network of other victims, including men he met on dating apps like Grinder, whom he also defrauded and cheated on Megan with. One victim, Alex, was manipulated into creating art for Robert's supposed mansion and asked to doctor documents. Robert's history of fraud included stealing half a million pounds from Harrods and purchasing Bentleys with bad checks. After eventually being caught and sentenced to five years, he escaped from an open prison and is currently still at large, continuing his scams under new identities like 'Leo Fitzlin Howard,' often claiming his mansion is being renovated while living in an RV. Megan has since recovered, starting a successful photography business to pay off the debt.
This case highlights the sophisticated tactics of con artists, particularly 'love bombing' and emotional abuse, which can ensnare victims and lead to severe financial and emotional devastation. It also exposes systemic issues in how law enforcement sometimes initially handles fraud within relationships, dismissing it as 'domestic' rather than a serious crime. The con man's ongoing freedom and continued scams underscore the importance of public awareness and vigilance against such predators, emphasizing that these individuals often operate with impunity until their patterns are widely exposed.

Takeaways

  • Robert Underwood, a con man, used a fake 'Lord' persona to charm and defraud multiple victims, including his fiancée, Megan Clark.
  • He engaged in 'love bombing' and emotional abuse, isolating Megan and accumulating £30,000 in debt under her name, with police initially dismissing her claims.
  • After a brief imprisonment, he escaped from an open prison and is still actively conning people under new identities, demonstrating a persistent and dangerous pattern of fraud.

Insights

1The 'Lord' Persona and Lavish Love Bombing

The con man, 'Robert Underwood' (or 'Birdie'), created an elaborate fake identity as a wealthy 'Lord' and heir to the Underwood typewriter fortune. He used this persona to 'love bomb' Megan, showering her with expensive gifts, lavish dates, and a Cartier engagement ring, quickly moving their relationship to cohabitation and a proposal within four months. This rapid, intense display of affection and wealth was a key tactic to gain trust and commitment.

Robert told Megan he was a Lord, inherited wealth from the Underwood typewriter inventor, and worked as a horologist. He sent flowers, took her to the Royal for dinner, bought her a car, and proposed with a Cartier ring after four months.

2Emotional Abuse and Financial Exploitation of Fiancée

Beyond the initial charm, Robert systematically isolated Megan. He convinced her to quit her beloved bar management job to work for his 'watch business' (which was actually an eBay scam), citing jealousy over other men. He refused to be posted on her social media and became enraged when questioned. This emotional control paved the way for him to take out multiple credit cards and loans in her name, leaving her with £30,000 in debt, and even the Cartier ring was a fake.

Robert convinced Megan to leave her job at the bar to work for him, citing jealousy. He wouldn't let her post him on social media and reacted angrily when asked why. Megan discovered several bank cards under different names and found he had put her in £30,000 debt.

3Police Inaction and Victim Empowerment Through Social Media

When Megan reported the extensive fraud to the police, they initially dismissed it as a 'domestic issue,' telling her she was 'on her own' and had to pay off the debt herself. Feeling abandoned by the system, Megan and her mother took matters into their own hands by posting Robert's photos and story on Facebook, which garnered thousands of shares and led to other victims coming forward.

Megan went to the police who told her there was nothing they could do because the fraud was a 'domestic issue' and she had to pay the debt herself. She and her mom posted his pictures and story on Facebook, leading to hundreds of thousands of shares and messages from other victims.

4Multi-Faceted Deception and Diverse Victims

Robert's con extended far beyond Megan. He used dating apps like Grinder to find male partners, manipulating them with the same 'Lord' persona and stealing from them. He even brought these men to his and Megan's shared home when she was absent. He also manipulated others, like Alex, into believing his lies and attempting to involve them in illicit activities like doctoring documents. His past included stealing half a million pounds from department stores like Harrods and buying luxury cars with bad checks.

Megan received messages from men claiming to be Robert's boyfriends, met on Grinder, who were also victims of his theft. He had these men come to his and Megan's house. Alex was asked to doctor bank statements and passports. Robert stole half a million pounds from Harrods and bought Bentleys with bad checks.

5Escape from Prison and Ongoing Scams

After finally being arrested and sentenced to five years for his crimes, Robert escaped from an 'open prison' (a low-security facility for low-risk inmates) just two years into his sentence. He removed his monitoring device and vanished. To this day, he remains at large and continues to con people, using new aliases like 'Leo Fitzlin Howard' and adapting his story (e.g., claiming his mansion is being renovated while living in an RV).

Robert escaped from an open prison two years into his sentence by removing his monitoring device. He is still on the run, conning people as 'Leo Fitzlin Howard,' claiming his mansion is being renovated while living in an RV.

Lessons

  • Be highly skeptical of relationships that move extremely fast, especially when accompanied by lavish gifts and intense declarations of love ('love bombing'), as these can be tactics of manipulation.
  • Maintain your independence and social connections. If a partner tries to isolate you from your job, friends, or family, or controls your social media presence, recognize these as major red flags for emotional abuse.
  • Regularly check your credit report and bank statements for any unauthorized activity. If you suspect identity theft or fraud, report it immediately to financial institutions and law enforcement, and persist even if initial reports are dismissed.

Quotes

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"Just when you think this story couldn't get any crazier, we peel back an entire new layer of crazy."

Janelle
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"Isolation is a form of control in an abusive relationship. And it doesn't always have to start out super extreme either."

Janelle
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"Sorry, there's nothing we can really do about this because this fraud was more of a domestic issue and she was pretty much on her own."

Janelle (recounting police response)
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"He escaped from prison and is still on the run. Yeah, it it it's truly one of the craziest stories."

Janelle

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