The Most Important Conversation You’ll Ever Hear About Women’s Health | Dr. Rachel Rubin
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Takeaways
- ❖Hormone fluctuations (from birth control, breastfeeding, perimenopause, menopause) drastically increase UTI risk and cause genital/urinary symptoms.
- ❖Vaginal hormones (estrogen or DHEA) are microdosed, safe, inexpensive, and prevent UTIs by over 50%, also improving dryness, pain with sex, and urinary frequency/urgency.
- ❖Incorrect FDA warning labels on vaginal hormone products, which falsely claimed risks like stroke and cancer, were removed in February 2026 after decades of advocacy.
- ❖Gynecologists are primarily trained in reproductive health, not sexual medicine; urologists often have more expertise in genitourinary health for all genders.
- ❖Testosterone is a human hormone, not gendered, and women experience an age-related decline in their 30s, impacting libido, energy, and mood.
- ❖There is no FDA-approved testosterone product for women in the US, despite global consensus on its safety and efficacy for low libido.
- ❖Clitoral adhesions, affecting 23% of women, can cause pain and reduce orgasm ability, but are treatable with a simple in-office procedure.
- ❖Pelvic floor muscles can become tight or weak, causing constipation, urinary issues, and pain with sex, necessitating physical therapy.
- ❖Women are often gaslit or dismissed by doctors regarding sexual and urinary health symptoms due to a systemic lack of medical education in these areas.
- ❖Self-education and advocating for a 'pit crew' of curious, kind clinicians are essential for women to receive appropriate care.
Insights
1Hormonal Fluctuations Drive Genitourinary Syndrome (GSM) Across All Ages
Hormone changes, not just menopause, are a primary cause of genitourinary symptoms. Conditions like birth control use, breastfeeding, and breast cancer therapies, alongside perimenopause and menopause, lead to a drop in estrogen and testosterone. This hormonal shift alters the vaginal and bladder microbiome, increasing the risk of UTIs, dryness, irritation, urinary frequency, urgency, and pain with sex. This condition, termed Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM), is misnamed as it affects women throughout their lifespan.
People on birth control pills, breastfeeding, or on hormone therapies for breast cancer, perimenopause, and menopause can drastically increase their risk of UTIs. Vaginal hormones prevent urinary tract infections by more than half. The vagina needs hormones like a plant needs water. When perimenopause happens or other things like breastfeeding or birth control pills, the tissue can start changing the way that it looks and feels. The pH starts to rise, bad bacteria grow, and good bacteria shrink.
2Vaginal Hormones are Safe, Effective, and Life-Saving, Despite Historical Misinformation
Microdosed vaginal hormones (estrogen or DHEA) are highly effective in preventing UTIs and alleviating GSM symptoms. They work locally to restore the vaginal and bladder microbiome and tissue health. Historically, these products carried false, blanket warning labels from the FDA, linking them to risks like stroke and cancer, based on misinterpretations of a 2002 study (Women's Health Initiative). These labels were officially removed in February 2026 after extensive advocacy, clarifying that vaginal hormones are safe, even for individuals with cancer history, and do not cause systemic side effects.
Using vaginal hormones prevent urinary tract infections by more than half. We've known about this since the 1990s. We've had products since the 1970s. The FDA removed the box labeling on vaginal hormone products in February 2026. These medicines were always safe, life-saving, and the label was wrong. There is no data to show harm in these products. A paper looked at 50,000 women with active breast cancer, and those who took vaginal estrogen died less.
3Testosterone is Essential for Women's Health, Lacks US FDA Approval
Testosterone is a crucial human hormone, not exclusive to men, and women's levels naturally decline starting in their 30s. This decline impacts libido, energy, mood, and even urinary continence. Despite global medical consensus on its safety and efficacy for women, particularly for low libido, there is no FDA-approved testosterone product specifically for women in the United States. This forces clinicians to use lower doses of male testosterone products 'off-label,' highlighting a significant gap in women's healthcare.
Around 35, your testosterone starts to drop precipitously. Low libido, increase in UTIs, increase in pain with sex. For women, we have no FDA-approved testosterone product for women. None. Zero. It's approved in Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, and England. We have a paper called the global consensus on testosterone therapy in women. It says global consensus that testosterone therapy is safe for women and works.
4Clitoral Adhesions are Common, Treatable, and Impact Sexual Function
Approximately 23% of women have clitoral adhesions, where the clitoral hood is stuck to the glans, preventing full retraction. This condition is often undiagnosed because medical professionals are not routinely trained to examine the clitoris. Adhesions can cause pain, irritation, and significantly decrease arousal and orgasm ability. A simple, in-office procedure to release these adhesions has shown remarkable improvements (60-70% in arousal/orgasm, 70% decrease in pain), even enabling orgasm for some who never had one before.
23% of all women who come into the clinic have what's called clitoral adhesions. No doctor is taught how to examine the clitoris or ever routinely examines the clitoris. In 2017, we were the first to publish that it is either mild, moderate, or very severe. We do an office-based procedure, mild numbing agent, no cutting, no sutures. 60 to 70% improvement in arousal, orgasm, satisfaction, 70% decrease in pain. Of the patients who had never had an orgasm in their lives, six were able to orgasm with clitoral stimulation after this procedure.
5The Medical System Systemically Fails Women's Health Education and Care
The current medical system is not designed to adequately address women's sexual and hormonal health. Doctors, including gynecologists, receive minimal to no training on topics like the clitoris, female sexual function, or modern hormone therapy. This lack of education, combined with short appointment times and historical misinformation (like the WHI study's impact on HRT), leads to women being dismissed, misdiagnosed, or told their symptoms are 'all in their head.' This systemic issue results in widespread suffering from treatable conditions.
The word clitoris doesn't appear in what a gynecologist needs to know to graduate her training today in 2026. No one taught them. So often will say something wrong or untrue or make the patient feel like it's all in their head. The Women's Health Initiative study (2002) misinterpreted data, leading to a press conference that wrongly claimed hormones cause breast cancer and cardiovascular disease, profoundly impacting women's lives for decades. We get no training in medical school, no training in our residencies, even gynecology and primary care.
Bottom Line
The removal of the FDA's 'black box' warning labels on vaginal hormone products, which were based on flawed interpretations of systemic hormone therapy, creates a massive, immediate opportunity for clinicians to confidently prescribe these life-saving treatments.
This regulatory change empowers doctors to offer effective, low-cost solutions for chronic UTIs, dryness, and pain, potentially saving Medicare billions and drastically improving women's quality of life without fear of malpractice or patient alarm.
Develop targeted educational campaigns for healthcare providers and the public, leveraging the new FDA stance to normalize and promote vaginal hormone therapy. Create accessible platforms for doctors to learn prescription protocols and for patients to find informed providers.
The lack of FDA-approved testosterone for women in the US, despite global consensus and clear benefits for libido and mood, indicates a significant market failure and regulatory bias.
Millions of women suffer from low libido and related symptoms that could be effectively treated with testosterone, but access is limited to 'off-label' prescriptions of male products, often with imprecise dosing and higher costs for women-specific compounded versions.
Invest in research and advocacy to push for FDA approval of women-specific testosterone products. Develop precise, affordable, and accessible testosterone formulations for women, potentially leveraging existing generic male products with clear dosing guidelines and patient education.
The prevalence of undiagnosed clitoral adhesions (23% of women) and pelvic floor dysfunction, coupled with a lack of medical training in female genital anatomy and sexual health, represents a vast unmet need for diagnostic and therapeutic services.
Many women experience chronic pain, discomfort, and inability to orgasm due to easily treatable physical issues, leading to psychological distress and reduced quality of life, often dismissed as 'normal' or 'psychosomatic.'
Establish specialized clinics and training programs focused on female sexual anatomy and pelvic health. Develop standardized diagnostic tools and simple, in-office procedures for conditions like clitoral adhesions, making them widely accessible to primary care and gynecological practices.
Opportunities
Women's Hormonal Health Education & Advocacy Platform
An online platform offering comprehensive, evidence-based courses for both healthcare professionals (e.g., how to prescribe hormones, examine female anatomy) and patients (e.g., self-assessment tools, 'teach your doctor' guides). It would leverage Dr. Rubin's guidelines and resources to bridge the knowledge gap and connect patients with informed providers.
Affordable, Women-Specific Hormone Product Development
A company focused on developing and bringing to market affordable, FDA-approved, women-specific vaginal DHEA and testosterone products. This addresses the current issues of high cost, lack of insurance coverage, and reliance on 'off-label' male products, making these essential therapies widely accessible.
Specialized Female Genital & Pelvic Health Clinics
A network of specialized clinics focusing on diagnosing and treating overlooked female genitourinary and sexual health issues, such as clitoral adhesions, vulvar vestibule pain, and pelvic floor dysfunction. These clinics would emphasize comprehensive physical exams, patient education (using mirrors and models), and a multidisciplinary 'pit crew' approach.
Key Concepts
Plant Needing Water
Dr. Rubin uses the analogy of a plant needing water to describe how vaginal tissues require hormones to thrive. Without hormones, the tissue becomes dry, cracked, and fragile, similar to a dehydrated plant. Providing vaginal hormones is like giving the plant water, allowing it to rejuvenate and flourish.
Healthcare Pit Crew
The 'pit crew' model frames a patient as the race car driver (CEO) at the center of their healthcare, assembling a team of specialized clinicians (the pit crew) to address different health aspects. This emphasizes patient agency and the need for multiple experts, rather than relying on a single doctor for all issues.
Tip of the Iceberg
When discussing the clitoris, Dr. Rubin explains that the visible part is just the 'tip of the iceberg.' The majority of the clitoral tissue extends internally, splitting into 'legs' that reach the sit bones. This model highlights the extensive, often unknown, internal anatomy of the clitoris and why stimulation beyond the visible tip is crucial for pleasure.
Lessons
- If experiencing chronic UTIs, dryness, pain with sex, or urinary issues, ask your doctor about microdosed vaginal hormones (estrogen or DHEA), even if you are on systemic HRT or are younger.
- Educate yourself about female anatomy (e.g., clitoris, vulvar vestibule, pelvic floor) using a mirror and reliable resources (Dr. Rubin's website, ISSWH.org) to better articulate symptoms to your doctor.
- If you suspect clitoral adhesions or pelvic floor dysfunction, seek out a specialist (like a sexual medicine urologist or pelvic floor physical therapist) who is trained in these specific areas.
- If your doctor is dismissive or uninformed about women's sexual and hormonal health, bring them educational resources (like Dr. Rubin's downloadable guides on prescribing hormones) or seek a second opinion from a more specialized or curious clinician.
- Consider discussing testosterone therapy with an informed doctor if you experience low libido, low energy, or mood changes, understanding that it's a human hormone with documented benefits for women, despite lacking specific FDA approval for women in the US.
Advocating for Your Hormonal Health in a 10-Minute Doctor's Visit
**Educate Yourself First:** Before your appointment, research your symptoms and potential hormonal links (e.g., GSM, low testosterone). Dr. Rubin's website (RachelRubinMD.com) and ISSWH.org are good starting points. Download any relevant guidelines or 'teach your doctor' printouts.
**Frame the Conversation:** Start by acknowledging the doctor's busy schedule and potential knowledge gaps. Say, 'I've been researching my symptoms (e.g., chronic UTIs, pain with sex) and learned about hormonal factors like GSM/low testosterone. Are you the right person to help me with this, or can you refer me to a specialist?'
**Be Specific and Direct:** Clearly state your most bothersome symptoms and how they impact your quality of life. For example, 'I get 10 UTIs a year, and it's affecting my work and sex life. I read about vaginal hormones preventing UTIs by over 50% and want to discuss if this is right for me.'
**Present Information Concisely:** If your doctor is unfamiliar, briefly mention key facts, such as the recent FDA label changes for vaginal hormones or the global consensus on women's testosterone. Offer the printouts you brought. Focus on 'what' (the condition) and 'what works' (the treatment).
**Request Specific Actions:** Ask for a prescription for vaginal estrogen/DHEA, a blood test for testosterone (if relevant), or a referral to a sexual medicine specialist or pelvic floor physical therapist. Be prepared to explain why these are relevant based on your research.
Notable Moments
Dr. Rubin's personal advocacy to remove FDA warning labels on vaginal hormones, inspired by her mother's critical illness, culminated in the labels' removal on her mother's birthday.
This deeply personal story illustrates the profound impact of medical misinformation, the power of grassroots advocacy, and the life-saving potential of treatments previously hindered by flawed regulatory warnings. It underscores the fight against systemic barriers in women's healthcare.
A 7-year-old girl from Western Canada, suffering from undiagnosed clitoral adhesions, was finally believed and treated after years of distress and misdiagnosis (including being recommended cognitive behavioral therapy).
This case highlights the severe consequences of medical professionals' lack of training in female genital anatomy, even for children. It demonstrates how simple anatomical issues can cause profound suffering and how validation and correct diagnosis can be life-changing, emphasizing the urgent need for widespread education and examination protocols.
Quotes
"The word clitoris doesn't appear in what a gynecologist needs to know to graduate her training. Today? Today in 2026."
"Most of those problems, not every problem, but majority of those problems are due to hormone fluctuations that are changing the microbiome of the vagina and the bladder. And it can be treated for every aged person, for every person with every medical problem, and can cost you as little as $7 a month."
"Testosterone is a human hormone. It is not a gendered hormone. That was very old politics from a very long time ago, and we have to move on."
"Half the world has a clitoris. Why don't doctors study it?"
"Sex should not be painful and you deserve a diagnosis."
"There are no grownups coming to save the day. Okay, there's no grownups. We are the grownups, and we have to roll up our sleeves and do the work ourselves sometimes."
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