Police Find Murder Plot Crumpled In Trash?! The Case Of Patrick De La Cerda
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Summary
Takeaways
- ❖Patrick De La Cerda was shot four times in an ambush at his home in February 2018, lured to the door by a fake package delivery.
- ❖Jessica Debnani, Patrick's fiancée, immediately suspected her ex-boyfriend, Greg Bender, due to his history of harassment and threats.
- ❖Bender had stalked and threatened Patrick and Jessica for months after they started dating, including threats to hire a hitman.
- ❖A restraining order was in place for Jessica against Bender, but he ignored it and failed to relinquish his firearms as ordered.
- ❖Bender's ex-wife, Deara, found a detailed, handwritten murder plan in his notebook, outlining the entire scheme, including a map and alternative methods like heroin overdose or suffocation.
- ❖Investigators found 300 Blackout ammunition and a shell casing from the murder weapon in Bender's home.
- ❖Digital evidence linked a burner phone used to call Patrick's father (posing as the delivery driver) directly to Greg Bender.
- ❖Greg Bender was convicted of first-degree murder in May 2021 and sentenced to life in prison.
Insights
1Ambush Murder Orchestrated by Obsessive Ex-Boyfriend
Patrick De La Cerda was fatally shot in an ambush at his home. The killer, Greg Bender, was the ex-boyfriend of Patrick's fiancée, Jessica. Bender used a ruse of a package delivery to lure Patrick to the front door, where he was shot multiple times with a high-powered weapon.
Patrick's father received calls from an unknown number about a package delivery. Patrick was found shot inside the front door, with his legs on the stairs, suggesting he was coming down to answer. Jessica received calls from Bender that morning, which she found alarming given his prior threats.
2Detailed Murder Plot Discovered in Trash
Greg Bender's ex-wife, Deara, found a notebook containing a meticulously detailed, handwritten plan for Patrick's murder. This plan included specifics on Patrick's address, how Bender would get there, the method of killing (initially a heroin/fentanyl overdose or suffocation, with shooting as an alternative), alternate plans, and methods to avoid detection, such as changing license plates and using burner phones.
Deara contacted police after seeing news of Patrick's murder, revealing she found the notebook in December 2017. During a search of Bender's home, detectives found the crumpled notebook in his office trash can, confirming Deara's account.
3Circumstantial Evidence Piles Up
Despite a lack of DNA at the scene, investigators amassed significant circumstantial evidence against Bender. This included matching ammunition, a shell casing from the murder weapon found in his home, video footage of his car leaving his house an hour before the murder, and digital evidence linking a burner phone used in the ruse directly to him.
Two 300 Blackout ammunition shell casings were found at the crime scene. A gun safe in Bender's closet contained 300 Blackout ammunition. A gold 300 Blackout shell casing found in his drawer matched the gun used at the scene. A neighbor's security camera showed Bender's car leaving his house. A burner phone used to call Patrick's father was traced to Bender and only called his personal phone.
4Restraining Order Ineffective Against Determined Killer
Jessica had an active restraining order against Greg Bender, which prohibited him from contacting her and required him to surrender his firearms. However, Bender violated the order by calling Jessica on the morning of the murder and never relinquished his extensive gun collection, including an AR-15.
Jessica received two calls from Bender on the morning of the murder, violating the restraining order. Jessica recalled seeing an AR-15 at Bender's house during their relationship. Patrick's family expressed anger that the restraining order and weapon surrender were not upheld, believing Patrick would still be alive if they had been.
Lessons
- Take threats from obsessive ex-partners seriously, especially if they involve violence or stalking, and document all instances.
- Understand the limitations of restraining orders; while important, they may not deter highly determined individuals, necessitating additional safety measures.
- If a protective order requires the surrender of firearms, verify that the order is strictly enforced by authorities to prevent potential tragedies.
Quotes
"I just want to say Patrick was the most loving, caring, beautiful soul. He was the life of the party and larger than life itself. He lived every day to the fullest and loved me unconditionally. Patrick and I were going to build a life together. We were going to have the fairy tale dream and live happily ever after. But this dream never became a reality because he was taken away by this man sitting in the courtroom today."
"I'm giving instructions and I'm going to have my plan put into action."
"Put duct tape on the bottom of a second pair of shoes, so no tread prints. Surgical tube for tourniquet. Needle preloaded lighter. useful to have GPS not on your phone."
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