Drama Dinner w/ Jake Shane | Ep 321 | Bad Friends
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Takeaways
- ❖Bobby orchestrated an elaborate airplane prank on Carlos, making him pretend to have a connection to deplane faster, then publicly called him out.
- ❖Bobby's 'drama dinner' with an opener resulted in tears after he 'dug deeper' into her personal life, attributing his insensitivity to poor eyesight and 'Asian eyes'.
- ❖Andrew found 'Project Hail Mary' to be 'millennial cringe' and 'Avengers style' filmmaking, while Bobby and Jake found it deeply moving and comparable to 'ET'.
- ❖Airport security in Mexico deflated a commemorative football due to air pressure concerns and questioned a Theragun, mistaking it for a weapon.
- ❖Bobby was surprised to learn that 'lamb' is a baby sheep, leading him to refuse to eat it, similar to his stance on veal (baby cow).
- ❖Puerto Vallarta is recognized as a significant gay hub, dubbed the 'West Hollywood of the Mexican coast'.
- ❖Seoul, Korea, has a known gay neighborhood called 'Homo Hill', challenging the perception that gay communities don't exist in certain countries.
- ❖Carlos is undergoing a two-stage hair restoration procedure at Bosley, with the first surgery lasting 12 hours.
- ❖Bobby openly discusses his past drug use, listing meth, crack, Molly, weed, acid, and mushrooms, emphasizing that addiction is a disease with no shame.
Insights
1The 'Connection' Airplane Prank
Bobby Lee orchestrated a prank on his assistant, Carlos, during a delayed flight. After the pilot requested passengers whose final destination was Detroit to remain seated for those with connections, Bobby texted Carlos to pretend he had a connection. When Carlos rushed to the front, Bobby publicly called him out, exposing the lie to the entire plane and flight attendants.
Bobby texted Carlos, who was in the back, to 'pretend that you have a connection.' Carlos rushed up, saying, 'No, I have a connection.' Bobby then yelled back, 'He's lying! I know him! That's Carlos!'
2The 'Drama Dinner' Incident
Bobby recounted a 'drama dinner' where he made his opener, Cat, cry by 'digging deeper' into her personal drama. He claimed his 'Asian eyes' and poor eyesight prevented him from seeing her tears initially, only noticing when her lip trembled.
Bobby states, 'I didn't know that it was going to make her cry... you kept going after I saw the tears start.' He later clarified, 'I'm because I have Asian eyes... I didn't see the welling.'
3Debate on 'Project Hail Mary' and Emotional Response
The hosts and guest debated the emotional impact of the movie 'Project Hail Mary'. Andrew found it 'millennial cringe' and compared it to 'Avengers style' filmmaking, while Bobby and Jake were deeply moved, crying multiple times and comparing its magical feeling to 'ET'. They jokingly labeled Andrew a 'sociopath' for not crying.
Andrew: 'A little too millennial for me. It was like not like millennial cringe.' Bobby: 'If that movie didn't bring you cry bring you to tears, then you didn't connect with what was really going on.' Jake: 'I cried about five times.'
4Airport Security and Inflatable Items
While returning from Mexico, Andrew experienced issues with airport security. A commemorative football was deflated because air pressure changes during flight can cause it to pop. His Theragun massage device was also scrutinized, with agents questioning if it was a 'gun' until he demonstrated its massage function.
Security deflated the football: 'Can't fly with fully inflated the drop in air pressure. It can cause the air inside to expand and make the ball pop.' The Theragun: 'He goes, 'What? What? What? What?' And I was like, 'Oh, massage uh massage.''
5Lamb is Baby Sheep Revelation
Bobby expressed his shock upon learning that 'lamb' is the term for a baby sheep, not a separate species. This revelation led him to refuse eating lamb, drawing a parallel to his avoidance of veal (baby cow).
Bobby: 'I go, 'Do they kill baby lambs?' And she goes, 'What do you mean?' And I go, 'Well, lambs, you know, have babies, right?' Oh, yeah. And she's like, 'No, the lamb is the baby.''
6Global Gay Communities and 'Homo Hill'
The discussion explored the existence and nature of gay communities globally. It was revealed that Puerto Vallarta is a major gay destination, and Seoul, Korea, has a specific area known as 'Homo Hill'. The hosts noted that in some countries where homosexuality is illegal, these communities exist in secret, often in 'speak easys' or 'pop-up parties'.
Andrew: 'Porto Viarta is like the West Hollywood of the Mexican coast.' Bobby: 'Itwan, specifically the area known as Homo Hill.'
7Carlos's Hair Transplant Journey
Carlos, a member of the podcast crew, is undergoing a hair restoration procedure at Bosley. Due to the extent of his baldness, it will be a two-stage operation, with the first surgery lasting approximately 12 hours. He expressed excitement about no longer needing to wear a hat constantly.
Bobby: 'Carlos is going into Bosley. They're going to give him a full hair restoration.' Carlos: 'We're going to do it once this year and then potentially in a year they're going to retouch.'
8Open Discussion of Past Drug Use
Bobby Lee openly discussed his extensive history with various drugs, including meth, crack, Molly, weed, acid, and mushrooms. He emphasized that addiction is a disease and there should be no shame in discussing it, even humorously.
Bobby: 'So, I've done So, I've done meth. I've done um crack.' He later adds, 'I've done Molly... weed, acid, mushroom... there's no shame in it.'
Quotes
"If that movie didn't bring you cry bring you to tears, then you didn't connect with what was really going on."
"Porto Viarta is like the West Hollywood of the Mexican coast."
"I always say I'm experiencing the experiences of like a 16-year-old girl for the first time as a 26-year-old gay boy."
"I walked up to my mom's office... Said, 'I think I like boys.' And then I asked for a toy."
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